HOW TO CONTROL
Controlling Emotions
The essence of mind control is to control emotions, so how do you generate emotions? You must first tune them out, and if there is no so-called emotional connection between you, you will not be controlled. So the first step in mind control is to make you curious about him, and this curiosity will bring about an illusion. What you think you like about the other person is really just a means of getting you interested in her, what psychology calls the drawbridge effect.
Fear of manipulation
When you try to refuse his demands, he will lose his temper with you or use cold violence to make you give up. In order not to provoke him, you will always hide your needs in your mind
Persistent devaluation
He seems to be constantly criticizing, blaming, and belittling you for your "problems", and when you try to defend yourself, his "I'm doing it for your own good " leaves you with nothing to say.
Hot and cold
Relationship Lockdown
He seems to be complaining about your friends, family, and colleagues, causing your old social
relationships to shrink and your dependence on him to grow stronger.